“People succeed through their own efforts, not just by being beautiful.”
The world is full of beautiful people, but are successful people only successful because of their looks?
Of course not. If beauty could guarantee success, then why are there so many women living miserable lives?
Perhaps society has misled us into thinking that beauty will make the world kinder to us.
In reality, these are just subjective impressions and illusions.
Beauty can give you an advantage, but to say it determines success is too simplistic.
The current societal trend shows us women who have succeeded against all odds. Some find love or have smooth entrepreneurial journeys after becoming beautiful.
However, success is not solely based on beauty.
One of the essential qualities for a successful woman is having a wise mind.
Life is about hard work, and beauty is just a bonus. Even with a beautiful face, without wisdom, it won’t have a significant impact on your life.
While there are many examples of women who have overcome obstacles to succeed, the hardships they face are beyond what most people can imagine.
Success doesn’t happen overnight; it requires perseverance and hard work.
If we must say they achieve what they want because of their beauty, then successful women with average looks succeed not because of their appearance but because of their knowledge and wisdom.
“Life is not a copy-and-paste, and it’s not a one-size-fits-all.”
Thinking that by having someone else’s appearance, you can have their life is too naive!
Are you really lacking their looks? Of course not, there is more to a person than just looks.
Everyone is different in terms of appearance, personality, family background, and thoughts. Even if you copy someone’s appearance, you won’t become them or replace them.
Many women undergo plastic surgery to look like celebrities, only to face ridicule in the end.
Your appearance is everywhere in your life and can’t be ignored. This might be why you can’t stand having an ordinary appearance.
The second thing you should possess is tolerance.
Be tolerant of others, but most importantly, be tolerant of yourself.
Have a more open attitude towards life, don’t sweat the small stuff, and this is the key to dealing with things calmly.
Being tolerant of yourself doesn’t mean being careless but accepting natural events that you can’t change.
Remember, the world isn’t harsh because you are not beautiful but because you are not working hard enough.
And a person’s appearance shouldn’t be the topic of conversation after a meal. As the saying goes, if a dog bites you, don’t bite back. Tolerance is about having a broad mind and being able to accept everything, which is essential for achieving great things.
“Women may be born timid, but panicking in situations is common.”
Once you enter your comfort zone, it’s hard to get out. This is not just a problem for women but for everyone.
Everyone desires beauty, but excessive attention to it is a kind of sickness. When you get caught up in this whirlpool, breaking free from it is an act of bravery.
I used to think beauty was essential, but later, I realized that people befriend and help you not because you are beautiful but because you have a different attitude and personality that makes you stand out.
Your positive and optimistic attitude can influence the people around you, so beauty has nothing to do with it. I, for one, won’t judge a person based on their appearance, and maybe you shouldn’t either.
The third factor that determines life is having a positive and brave attitude towards life.
“We are all dust in the universe, and in this vast world, our impact is minimal.”
But it’s these independent individuals that make up this vast world and provide everything necessary for human survival.
We used to debate whether men came first or women, but does it matter?
Every individual is essential, and no one can be excluded. When we focus solely on survival, no one cares about what you wear or how you look.
Now that living conditions have improved, women have started to think more freely.
Even if the world isn’t kind to you, it doesn’t matter how you look.
Women shouldn’t let anyone else decide their lives; the only ones who can decide are ourselves.
How to live, where to live, and with whom to live should all be our decisions.
Trying to become more beautiful is risky. Don’t easily resort to changing your fate through plastic surgery. If something goes wrong on the operating table, you might end up with a completely different life.
Be your natural self and live your life.