There is an old saying: “Harmony brings happiness to a family.”

If a family has good fortune, they will be happy. Conversely, if the family’s fortune is not good, they will face difficulties. To have a happy family, it’s crucial for family members to manage their household well.

Some people envy others’ families and think their own family is not as good. But sometimes, it’s not that their family members lack ability, it’s that they haven’t thought things through.

Certain things can disrupt a family and cause chaos. Therefore, it’s essential to do good things in the family and avoid crossing certain lines that can lead to future troubles.

As individuals, we must know where to focus our efforts and also understand where to avoid certain things from happening.

Our careers are important, but our families are also crucial. While we work hard for our careers, we are actually doing it for our families.

Therefore, managing our families well is a significant step towards success.

Arguments

Arguments within a family can greatly affect the household.

In my childhood, my family members often argued. Despite our wealth from owning a factory and my father’s earning ability, we couldn’t stop the disputes. Once, my grandmother and mother had a physical fight, and instead of intervening, my father scolded my mother.

My grandfather also joined in, and the family started to target my mother. This made my mother very upset, and after the arguments, the family situation worsened.

Subsequently, my mother left with my younger brother, and the family fell apart. It took a lot of effort and money for my father to bring my mother back, vowing not to repeat the same mistakes.

Arguments within a family can lead to various issues and affect the family’s fortune.

Therefore, a harmonious family will unite to accomplish tasks together, rather than falling apart and wasting time searching for distractions.

Cold Wars

In a family, spouses should avoid cold wars as they can damage the relationship.

I have a friend whose marriage started experiencing cold wars within just a few years. During one such episode, my friend slept on the couch with a pillow, hoping for an apology from the spouse. Unexpectedly, the spouse not only didn’t apologize but also left for their parent’s home with all their belongings.

Cold wars can hurt feelings and eventually lead to separation, causing difficulties in the family.

When spouses get along well, the family thrives. But if they are not on the same page, the family will eventually face issues.

Many cold wars can affect the couple’s relationship and impact the family.

In life, many marital issues that can be resolved through communication end up escalating into cold wars.

If this continues, it will exhaust both parties and may lead to separation.

While many things can improve a family, these two factors can negatively impact the family’s well-being.