Some women think they need to contact a man every day once they’ve developed feelings for him.

They worry that other women might snatch him away and also miss him dearly.

In reality, many women who have feelings for a man don’t contact him often, yet the man starts pursuing them after a few days.

Surprisingly, some women who are constantly in touch with a man find out that he’s with someone else.

There’s a saying: “Genuine affection doesn’t always stay, only strategy wins the heart.”

Sometimes, relationships require strategy. If a woman has feelings for a man, she should understand that even constant contact may not win him over. It’s better to use some tactics to “win” him over.

1. Improve Yourself

Women want an outstanding man as their partner, and men also seek an exceptional woman.

Men care a lot about their image, so if a woman is exceptional, the man feels proud to be with her.

An exceptional woman not only captivates a man, but also makes him look good in front of others. While women compare handbags, jewelry, and clothes, men compare the strength of their women with other men’s women.

Therefore, some women, after developing feelings for a man, constantly message him, hoping to make him fall in love through chats.

Later, if the man heartlessly rejects the woman, she feels he’s extremely cold. She keeps finding faults with the man, but she should look within herself.

Only when she’s exceptional, will she attract more exceptional people and make the person she has feelings for also fall for her.

2. Play Hard to Get

In relationships, there’s a saying: “Play hard to get.”

Sometimes, the more you show affection, the more the other person becomes indifferent. If you message someone a lot and they still act cold, it’s best to play hard to get.

You can chat with the man for a while, then leave him hanging. He will wonder why you’re suddenly not messaging him, making him curious.

A friend of mine had feelings for a man and messaged him every day, but the more she messaged, the more distant he became. Once she stopped contacting him for a few days out of anger, he messaged her first.

Sometimes, when you constantly message a man, he takes it for granted. If one day you suddenly stop, he feels uncomfortable, as if he’s lost something.

So, don’t push too hard, play hard to get appropriately.

3. Make Him Feel You’re a Perfect Match

It’s not about doing more, but doing the right things. Many believe finding a suitable partner is crucial, especially for young people who value their time.

If a woman has feelings for a man, she must understand him privately. When chatting with him, she should pinpoint what he’s thinking.

This makes the man more willing to chat, and during the conversation, he feels that the woman is perfect for him.

At this point, he might consider taking the next step with her.

Some women chat a lot with men, but every word is awkward, leading to no future.

4. Show Loyalty in Love

Women want a loyal man because it gives them a sense of security. Similarly, men seek a loyal woman because it gives them a sense of belonging.

Therefore, when pursuing a man, a woman must show him that she’s very loyal in love.

Men like to flirt, but they fear their woman cheating on them.

A man who’s been cheated on will be looked down upon and lose face. So, some men would rather keep it to themselves if their woman cheats.

Being cheated on becomes a lifelong pain for a man.

Thus, many men look for a very obedient wife.

A loyal woman always receives the admiration of men. So, if a woman has feelings for a man, she must show him her attitude towards love.

Don’t let the man think you easily fall for someone else.

Women are often emotional when it comes to love, especially when they meet someone they have feelings for. Throughout history, pursuing a partner has mainly been men’s job, so women tend to make mistakes when encountering someone they have feelings for. Some believe that true love can win a man over, but sometimes it’s not enough; love requires skill.