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The 33-Year-Old Man Who Jumped into the River: The Contempt of Parents Crushed a Grown Man

The Unspoken Struggle of Young Adults in Modern Society

In his last words, he wrote:

“I’ve been working hard all year, but I still can’t make a few thousand dollars a month. One thing can be said thousands of times, isn’t it just pushing me to death? Don’t bother me, just let me rest in peace.”

This was the last message from a 33-year-old man to his parents.

After writing these words, the man chose to end his life.

According to media reports:

The man made less than $1,000 a month, so his parents often complained about him.

Just a few days before the man chose to end his life, he had a big fight with his parents. After the fight, the man decided to leave his parents.

Maybe the man had thought about this before, but this time it was the last straw.

Later, the man felt that his parents were always complaining about him, and he couldn’t take it anymore, so he chose to end his life.

When the police pulled him out of the water, he was already gone.

Later, his parents were heartbroken, but it was too late, because their child was already gone.

The Pressure on Young People is Huge

The pressure on young people is huge, and society is like a hell for them.

Sometimes you’ll find that young people have to work hard outside, and when they come home, they still have to worry about housing and cars.

Not to mention, young people also have to support their parents, and some men even have to marry a wife, who wants a house, a car, and to live separately from their parents, and they need to spend a lot of money on gifts.

All the burdens are on young people’s shoulders, because that’s the way society is now.

Our houses are very expensive, and our cars are unaffordable, so it’s impossible for one person’s salary to buy a house and a car.

Take a look around the world, and you’ll find that people can’t even afford a house in their lifetime.

That’s why many young people like to go to big cities to develop, because big cities can make a lot of money, and they can buy a good house later.

But big cities also have their own troubles, and when you’re there, you’ll find that the pressure is even greater. Maybe the money you make isn’t even enough to rent a house.

So, the pressure on young people is really huge, and many young people feel like they’re living in hell.

Money Isn’t Everything

Someone said:

“Money isn’t everything, but no money is a big problem.”

Many people remember that no money is a big problem, but few people think about the fact that money isn’t everything.

In this world, everything is created by people, so people are the most important thing, and people are the deciding force.

As a human being, you must know that people are the most important thing, so when you have children, don’t give them too much pressure, because society already gives them enough pressure.

You should always consider your children, because sometimes your hurtful words can be very serious in their eyes.

People often say: “Keep the green hills, and don’t worry about running out of firewood.”

This saying makes sense, because if a family loses its people, what’s the point of having a treasure trove?

So, sometimes you should prioritize people, and for a working-class person, as long as you can solve the problem of food and clothing, you should live a happy life.

When you can’t change the world, you should at least make yourself happy.

Young People Need Their Parents’ Understanding

Young people also need their parents’ understanding. Sometimes people tell us that young people should understand their parents, but young people are not that different.

The pressure on young people is much greater than on older people, who only need to eat their fill and that’s it.

But now, young people have to compare themselves to others, and when they get married, they need to prepare a lot of money.

So, the pressure on a man is huge, and as parents, you should understand your son. Maybe in your eyes, your son is not a good person, or maybe he’s a naughty person, but he has his own thoughts and wants to solve his own problems.

Parents always think that making money is easy, but when they go out and take a look, they realize that their child is not that easy.

I remember when I went back home last year, my grandfather told me:

“The kid next door has become a mayor, and he’s about the same age as you. He’s already a mayor, and the kid next door makes $10,000 a month now. What are you going to do?”

Old people always think that doing these things is easy, and making money is especially easy.

In reality, doing these things is not easy at all. For ordinary people, being down-to-earth is the best choice.

Someone can become a mayor, but how did they become a mayor? We ordinary people can’t ask, and we can’t compare ourselves to them.

Someone just graduated from college and is already making tens of thousands of dollars a month. How did they make that money? We ordinary people can’t ask.

So, parents never know how much pressure their child is under, and they think that their child can be like someone else’s child, who is already a mayor and making a lot of money.

But sometimes you just can’t compare yourself to others.

Some parents just can’t see the truth, and they blindly push their child to be like someone else’s child, which is impossible.

As a modern young person, you also need your parents’ understanding, and parents should know that doing anything is not easy nowadays.

Some Things Are Too Late to Regret

Some things are too late to regret, and life can’t be turned back.

When parents keep giving their child pressure and keep denying their child, the child will also deny themselves and feel that life has no meaning.

Imagine that the child works late every day, sometimes has to work overtime, and sometimes has to deal with their boss’s temper. When the child wants to go home and relax, the parents still keep complaining.

The child will feel that they can’t get a peaceful environment outside, and they can’t rest at home either, so who can take it?

When you’re denied by others wherever you go, and you always hear words that put pressure on you…

Maybe the thought of giving up on life isn’t just a fleeting thought, but a long-planned one.

Some things can’t be taken back once they’re done, so cherish them.

Life is not easy, and parents should understand their children, and children should also understand their parents. In this world, no one has it easy, so we should support and understand each other.