“Don’t judge a book by its cover. The depth of water beneath the surface can be deceiving.”

Sometimes, don’t just focus on what’s visible, but try to understand the essence of things.

When you are with a group of people, you may find that everyone has different thoughts. Even though someone may seem friendly on the surface, their actions may reveal their true feelings towards you.

So, to determine if someone truly cares about you, look beyond their surface behavior and observe their underlying intentions.

People who secretly look down on you may not show it overtly, but they often exhibit certain behaviors.

Ignoring You

I have a friend who recently started a new job. Despite graduating from a prestigious university and being a hardworking individual, my friend comes from a modest background with parents who are farmers.

Due to my friend’s excellent performance at work, the boss valued and promoted them to a managerial position, overseeing a team that included another supervisor.

However, although the supervisor didn’t openly oppose my friend, they didn’t follow instructions either. They appeared friendly on the surface but didn’t truly respect my friend.

When someone disregards you, it reveals their true feelings of disdain towards you. Even though being ignored may not seem harmful, it can have a significant impact on you.

Gossiping Behind Your Back

Some people secretly look down on you and express their disdain through gossip rather than directly confronting you.

For instance, if someone compliments your inexpensive clothing in person, but criticizes it behind your back, it shows their true colors.

Be wary of those who praise you in front of you but gossip about you behind your back.

Turning Others Against You

People who look down on you may try to manipulate others to turn against you secretly.

During my college days, I witnessed a situation where one roommate, who looked down on another, manipulated the other roommates against her.

Be cautious of those who act friendly in your presence but scheme against you behind your back.

Boosting Themselves to Diminish You

Some individuals look down on others and try to elevate themselves by diminishing others.

When someone excels at work but still feels the need to put others down, it reflects their insecurities.

Remember, in this world, people only envy and belittle you when you excel. So, reflect on your actions if you constantly face criticism and belittlement.

Establish your own principles and boundaries in life. Once you develop your own style, others will hesitate to mistreat you.

In reality, many people hide their true intentions. Therefore, it’s essential to understand the essence of situations rather than just judging based on appearances.

Remember, if you appear weak, people may try to take advantage of you. So, strive to be strong and wise as you navigate through life.