Someone once asked whether having a deep city mansion is a good thing or a bad thing. I think there is no absolute answer to this question.

Having a deep city mansion is not always a bad thing, but sometimes if it is too deep, it may not necessarily be a good thing.

When interacting with others, we all say we need to be sincere, but sometimes we also get deceived. People with deep city mansions have overly delicate minds, and in the process of interacting with them, your interests may occasionally be harmed.

We always talk about being sincere to others, so having a too deep city mansion may sometimes cause the other person to have negative feelings. Genuine character cannot be disguised, and being inconsistent will eventually make us lose others’ trust in us.

People with deep city mansions are good at disguising themselves. It’s hard for ordinary people to see through them. When interacting with them, you can’t guess their thoughts or understand their motives.

In psychology, it is said that people with deep city mansions often have a certain level of ambition. When communicating with them, they always prioritize their interests. Therefore, facing such people, you should also be cautious and not easily trust them.

In real life, people with deep city mansions often act indifferent at certain times because only in this way can others find it difficult to understand their true thoughts.

Living with a Mask On

People who are good at living with a mask on in the crowd cannot express their true selves. They are good at concealing and disguising themselves when in a group.

You can’t really understand their inner selves because what you see is mostly their surface. Habitually concealing themselves makes it tiring to communicate with them as they always hide their true thoughts.

People who are good at concealing themselves may not necessarily live happily because they have too many complex emotions piled up inside them, making them sensitive and suspicious in real life.

It is said in psychology that people’s feelings are based on mutual trust. Once one party loses integrity, the other will feel disappointed, which weakens their likability.

Indeed, living with a mask on in life may not be noticed at first, but over time, whether you are consistent will be apparent to others. Having a deep city mansion is not a bad thing because you need to protect yourself, but you should understand that only by being honest will you earn others’ respect.

People who habitually wear masks in the crowd have a deep city mansion in a way because they are unwilling to show their true selves, leading them to constantly doubt others.

Knowing How to Control Emotions

Knowing how to control emotions means that a person understands that quarreling doesn’t solve problems. They won’t argue face-to-face with others or put themselves in a weak position.

People who can control their emotions can be scary because they are unpredictable when communicating with them. You can’t truly read them.

Therefore, you can’t catch them off guard. When interacting with such people, you should be extra careful and avoid causing conflicts that harm yourself and others. You should learn how to communicate with different types of people.

There is a German proverb that says, “A half-truth is a whole lie.”

In real life, people who know how to control their emotions are often like a smiling tiger, easily gaining others’ trust but ruthless in their actions. When communicating with them, you should be more cautious and not end up being deceived, leaving with nothing.

Speaking Half-Truths

People who speak half-truths are not trustworthy from the start because they always leave themselves an exit and won’t speak definitively.

Sometimes they even deceive others, using various methods to evade and stall in their communication. They may seem sincere on the surface but have different intentions behind their backs.

People who love to lie won’t be able to make true friends wherever they go. Everyone likes compliments and praise, but they don’t truly care about whether you achieve high success, as there are not many people who genuinely wish you well, except for your parents.

People with deep city mansions, even if pretending, will appear natural and unaffected because they understand strategies and are good at psychological warfare. They may seem warm on the outside, but inside, they are indifferent.

People with deep city mansions speak half-truths, so you shouldn’t easily trust them. When you notice someone’s words contradicting themselves, you should keep your distance from them as nobody can truly understand their real thoughts.

Having a deep city mansion is not a bad thing, but no matter what, we should always remember that only by being honest with others will we earn their respect. So, when facing those with deep city mansions, we should also keep our distance.