When spending time with someone, everyone has their own secrets and privacy. When you’re sad, you might confide in your best friend.

But be careful what you say, even in a close relationship. Don’t reveal these three secrets, as it can lead to trouble.

Mistakes at work

Jocelyn and Lauren were best friends working at the same company. Jocelyn used to tell Lauren everything, including a work mistake once. She hoped for comfort but asked Lauren not to tell anyone.

One day, Lauren let it slip during a dinner with colleagues. The news spread to the boss. Jocelyn got scolded, cried, and their friendship suffered. Work mistakes are common but should be kept to oneself, even from close friends.

Remember work mistakes, learn from them, and find solutions. Don’t brag about them.

Financial situation

Money isn’t everything, but it’s crucial. Don’t test people’s loyalty with money. Greed is powerful.

Don’t underestimate greed. Don’t flaunt wealth. Life’s joys and sorrows are personal, not for show.

Family conflicts

Every family has issues. Solve them privately, don’t share with others. Most won’t care or will mock you.

Deal with family conflicts internally. Don’t seek outside validation. Respect your family’s privacy.

Heraclitus said, “If all our misfortunes were laid in a common heap, from which everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be content to take their own and depart.” Deal with your troubles alone.

In life, keep some things to yourself. Be wise and handle emotions privately.