When interacting with various people outside, it’s important to adjust your approach accordingly.

Having the right attitude can help you win more friends and respect. Being generous and open-minded in your interactions can lead to better relationships.

However, being overly generous in certain situations might not be appreciated.

When Others Disrespect You, Being Overly Accommodating Will Only Encourage Them

Respect should be mutual. If you respect others but they don’t respect you, being excessively accommodating will only allow them to take advantage of you.

People’s attitudes toward you often depend on your own attitude. Everyone should have their principles and boundaries to earn respect and understanding.

Simply catering to others will make you lose your principles and boundaries, leading to a lack of respect from others.

It’s important to have your own principles and boundaries when interacting with people to gain respect.

The More Generous You Are with Lending Money, the More People Will Take Advantage of You

“Easy to borrow, hard to repay.”

In real life, lending money between friends can be tricky. Being too generous with lending money can attract more people who don’t take you seriously.

Excessive kindness can be draining and strain your relationships.

Lending money should be done in moderation to maintain true kindness. When your generosity is taken for granted, more people will disregard you.

Being Too Accommodating Leads to a Lack of Respect

In daily interactions, being too nonchalant can make others see you as indecisive.

Sometimes, to avoid inconveniencing others, we tend to say “whatever” too often, which can be perceived as lack of initiative.

Being overly casual can lead to a lack of respect and deteriorating relationships. Knowing how to interact with others wisely is key to earning respect and building good relationships.

Being generous is important, but maintaining your principles and boundaries is crucial to earning respect from others.