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A Family, Two Indications of a Good Start

There is a saying that goes, “A harmonious family brings prosperity.” The well-being of a family can change the course of one’s life…

There is a saying that goes, “A harmonious family brings prosperity.” The well-being of a family can change the course of one’s life, making it more beautiful and fulfilling.

Tolstoy once said, “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”

In reality, the happiness of a family often lies with its members. A family is a warm shelter, a gentle harbor when you are weary. Only a happy and harmonious family can make your life better.

Some feel envious when they see others’ happy families, contrasting their own families filled with arguments and conflicts, which can be distressing.

Sometimes what you see is not the reality. Envy towards others’ happiness may stem from not recognizing your own. Everyone deserves happiness, which is ubiquitous; it just requires a pair of eyes to see it.

To have a happy family, you must first work on yourself. A family with these two indications is the start of good fortune.

Filial Piety

It’s said that as the trees desire tranquility, the wind keeps blowing; as children want to care for their parents, time waits for no one. It reminds us to be filial in a timely manner, as opportunities missed may never return. Those who truly understand filial piety are worthy of respect from all aspects.

Being filial is a top virtue. Those who respect their parents and elders tend to excel in their endeavors as they possess fundamental virtues.

The saying “Be a good person before doing things” holds true. Only those who understand interpersonal skills can excel in every task.

I once had a boss who, despite a busy schedule, always made time for his family and parents. I remember a time when we were working late due to a busy period at the company. He worked alongside us without any airs, always ready to help us with any difficulties.

He earned our respect. Later, we found out it was his mother’s birthday that day. After working late, he rushed to catch the last bus home to celebrate with his mother. He said that even though his mother was already asleep when he got home, she was happy he was there.

When he shared this story with us, he said, “I tell you this to make you understand that no matter how tough or busy work gets, you must give your family enough time. Only those filled with love can make a family warm and create a harmonious atmosphere. Whether at work or in life, we should always have this attitude.”

In my eyes, he is an admirable boss. When it comes to filial piety, I believe he has excelled. No one is perfect, but striving to do your best and having the intention is enough.

A family flourishes with filial piety, leading to harmony and a pleasant atmosphere. Unhappiness in families often stems from trivial matters; being overly calculative only makes life worse. Therefore, respecting parents, honoring elders, and keeping filial piety in mind can make our families harmonious, happy, and content.

Doing Good Deeds

In real life, we can observe that those whose families prosper are often charitable and virtuous. Doing good deeds and accumulating virtue can bring blessings in this life. Families that understand kindness have good family ethics and decent character.

People who are kind tend to have a broad vision and handle things thoughtfully. The wealthier families are, the more willing they are to strive and work hard, as this is the path to continued prosperity.

Being kind to others is not just a state of mind but also a choice. Those who truly embody these four words are often few.

Being kind seems simple, yet it encompasses tolerance, understanding, kindness, and vision. Only by considering all these factors can we make our lives better. It’s easy to say but hard to do. Understanding these four words is the key to a harmonious and beautiful life.

The prosperity and good fortune of a family often stem from the efforts of its members. Being a good person and conducting oneself well will earn respect and understanding from others. This is the way to broaden the path to a happier and more fulfilling life, inviting good fortune.

Filial piety brings harmony to the family, while kindness towards others widens the path. Good fortune requires accumulation and self-control to grasp happiness.